Atmosphere (Part 2)
In order to pull this off you will need the right atmosphere. This means that you will have to have just the right lighting. Scented candles can enlighten the mood. Don’t make it too dark as he will want to see what is going on, but don’t make it so bright that you feel uncomfortable. Usually a couple large candles will do the trick. Be careful where you put them, you do not want to start a fire. That could really kill the mood.
Bring some alcohol into the equation. Some alcoholic beverages have been known to have aphrodisiac type qualities. Prepare them for him and have him enjoy in some prior to the show. You can do this at dinner, or even give him a drink, while you go and change. A couple of good choices would be absinthe or a good port wine. These have been known to increase the sexual libido upon consumption. If you can think of something else that would possibly increase or heighten the experience by all means include it.
Make sure that you choose a good location. You can do it at your home or apartment but make sure that you will be completely alone and will not be disturbed. A good option might be to have a dinner somewhere and then surprise him with a hotel room rental. This pleasant surprise will heighten his enjoyment. Try to find a place that is not usually a location you would make love. Being in a different location could also be a natural aphrodisiac in and of itself.
Turn off all connections to the outside world. Turn off cell phones, pagers or phones that could potentially interrupt a great night. Nothing would be worse than a great performance only to be interrupted by something. That really kills the mood.
Choosing the proper time is also essential. A good time might be when you least expect company, possibly 12 or 1 am. At these times most people should not be calling and or bugging you for a cup of sugar.
Select the appropriate music. Nothing can kill a good routine more than a bad selection. You don’t want to be bobbing your head like a crazy woman or have a rhythm that is just entirely way too difficult to move to. R & B is usually a good choice. Preferably choose a song or cd that you both like, and that you can move to. This has an added benefit as every time you hear one of those songs or tracks you will both look at each other and smile, remembering such a wonderful night.
Be back next week for the Doing the right moves.

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