Did you know that 52% of all marriages tend to fail these days? That is according to the Office of National Statistics (UK). Well, with that kind of number there is no doubt that something is wrong with the couples. There is much more to getting this complete process right than just going on dates and getting married.
But that is what we are all ethnically conditioned to do. Nobody can instruct us how to find the right partner. Not a soul can give us a great example of how to go through the process. Most of the people you are acquainted with, who are with long term partners, just met up, fell in love and settled down together.
So, this piece of article isn’t just helping you how you can look for your Mr. Right, but it also about assisting you to avoid the opportunity of going through divorce or a big separation. It is surely one of the biggest motivations for me to write this article and I do hope that you find this article useful and get the man of your dreams.
The good thing is that you are not required any dating service to find your Mr. Right. These basic tips below will help you to find the right guy for you! Here are they:
First, you need to decide what kind of guy that you like, what kind of personality he must have, what characteristics he must acquire, what value in life that he must have, and how he looks in order to be sexually attractive. It sounds a bit detached when talking about future partner material, but it’s the truth. If you don’t know what your goal is, in whatever thing you do, you seriously spoil your chances of getting it.
Second, when finding love, you have to look for the person on the inside, not someone on the outside. In this world today, the center of attraction we focus too much is on physical appearance. For instance, Anthony from accounting with the old glasses might be your Mr. Right if you can get past the petty tendency to look only at physical appearance. We girls like to have all of it, and well, guys aren’t so good at giving it to us, but they mean well, and they try so hard.
Lastly, be sincere and open! Sincerity is the number one most important element in any relationship. And true, if you’re breaking off with a few of the men they might be wounded, but they would rather hurt for a day or two, than staying in a relationship that is based upon false emotions and hurt forever.
Finally, let’s kick off with the first plain exercise in order to stimulate you!
In a second I’m going to ask you to take a few moments to envision what it would be like to have found your Mr. Right. Imagine sharing your days with a man who is not only your best friend but also someone you intensely desire physically.
Can you image yourself with him right now? Can you picture being completely in love with one other, feeling a deep sense of association and belonging that feels really usual, knowing with total certainty that you both want to share the rest of your lives together as one?
What would that emotion be worth to you?
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Tags: Easy tips, How to, How to get, Tuesday Tips, Womens Info
June 28th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
Interesting post… However, I think that women (especially in the U.S.) have to always keep in mind that there will always be winners and losers in the game of romance. What I mean by this is that it’s a known fact that women out-number men.
As a result, there will always be a woman without a man, this is just simple mathematics. Some will have a mate and some will not. Women (all people for that matter) need to understand that they are complete all by themselves and do not need a man to complete them.
Your second point mentioned that when looking for a companion, women should pay special attention to the inside. I agree, but I also think that they must first look within themselves and ensure that they respect who they are. It’s hard to love someone else, when you don’t love yourself.
Finally, having been HAPPILY married for more than 22 years, I would like to think that I have experienced loves emotions a time or two. What is love? What emotion comes to mind? Several… Love for me has been exciting and sometimes dull; fun and sometimes sad; it has made me feel selfish and sometimes giving… While love has never been perfect, it has always been worth it.
Regards,
Johnny
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