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Erotic massage is supposed to be a relaxing and sensual experience and there are many ways to ensure that it is just that. During this article we are going to concentrate on erotic foot massage. This “how to” is for people who want to give an erotic foot massage, so ladies please print this and give it to your partner for some light reading! 
 
What you need 
 
 Some clean feet
 
 Flavored massage oil
 
 Candles
 
 Pillows or cushions
 
 A romantic setting 
 
 Naked bodies…optional 
 
First things first, an erotic massage is intended to get you in the mood for optional extra’s once the massage is complete…if you make it that far! You will need to create a setting that is comfortable and relaxing and preferably light some candles for a soft and warm atmosphere. If you have a working fireplace, make use of it. Pillows and cushions are great to use for sitting and lying on if you don’t want to get oil all over your bed sheets.
 
So once you are ready we can begin
 
Step one:
 
Get your partner to lie on their back and sit next to them ensuring you have plenty of room to maneuver. Place the cushions under your partners’ neck and head and make sure they are completely comfortable and relaxed.
 
Step two:
 
Take the flavored oil in one hand and squirt a small amount onto one hand and rub your hands together coating both your hands fully in oil. Next take a small amount of oil and squeeze some onto your partners feet and gently rub the oil in.
 
Step three – the massage:
 
Place one hand on your partners sole and the other on the ankle. Gently smooth the oil across the foot and use your thumb to gently press into the sole of their foot. Continue this backward and forward motion for some time, looking into your partners eyes.
 
Next take your partners toes and slowly and gently rub the oil around each toe ensuring complete oil coverage. If there are any dry spots then simply get some more oil. The idea is to keep the foot oily to keep the massage movements soft and steady.
 
Use your fingers to gently press and massage the soles of the feet. 
 
Once your partner is completely relaxed you can begin the erotic stages of the massage.
 
Move so you are comfortably able to use your hands and mouth on your partner’s feet. Slowly trace your tongue across the front of your partner’s feet and use your hands at the same time to massage the soles.
 
Experiment and don’t be afraid to suck the toes. This can be extremely sensual for a lot of people and has even been known as the mini oral technique. 
 
Continue using your hands and feet as you concentrate on using motions that are sexy and sensual. Try to imagine having sex while you are doing this as it will send sensitive motions into your hands and tongue as you massage your partner.
 
If you like you can move up the ankle and towards the calf of the leg to give an all over tingle to your partners senses.
 
Step four:
 
If you wish to continue the massage then go ahead but most of you by now will probably want to move onto more exciting things. Why not slowly move your hands up your partner’s body, still massaging, such foreplay can really excite you both and the anticipation of the slow sensual movements will be sure to ignite both your passion and sexual senses.
 
Finishing:
 
If you have gone further than an erotic massage then finishing will be up to you! However, if you are still massaging, the end of a massage is one of the most important parts. You need to make sure you leave your partner relaxed, i.e. don’t just stop. Gently ease your movements and lighten your touches as you begin to slow down.
 
Then a great thing to do is just lie next to each other and cuddle for an hour or so. Both of you will be relaxed and calm after the quiet of massaging and will ideally be ready to have a nap.
 
This is great for just a romantic night. 

The Moves (Part 3)

All of the other items are very important, but possibly the most important of all the items is getting the moves down right.  Now not all of us are blessed with coordination, it is even possible to be rhythmically challenged but at this point it is really irrelevant because you are not actually trying to dance, you are just trying to move in a seductive manner to turn your partner on.  The hips are the key to this. As long as you can do that the outcome will be good.

A good idea would be to practice in front of a mirror with the music that you had in mind.  Take a look at yourself and just indulge yourself in the music and imagine everything you could think of that would turn him on.  You know what things arouse him, so use that to tease him and excite him.

A couple of good options would be to practice some of the stripper moves.

Practice the seductive hips move, this is relatively simple but look really good.  Practice moving your hips side to side with your head pointing in the opposite direction as they swing.  In between swings you can even add a motion upwards in a circular motion and then a motion downwards.  Then do a couple up and down thrusts and start all over again.

The stripper strut is another potentially potent move.  Stick your chest out and arch your back, point your rear out to the back, while walking use your feet to follow an imaginary straight line with each foot following the other foot.  Swing your hips as you go along.
Learn to master the lap dance.  You can grind your body against his “lap” in many different ways.  Start by rubbing your rear against his lap and grinding it.  Move sensually and slowly up and down, back and forth.  Remember to be as seductive as possible.  Stay there for a little while and then when it seems it is too much for him to handle you back off a bit and dance for him again.  Tease him.

Be creative.  Try out some different moves that could intensify the situation.  You know how your man enjoys being touched.  Tease him.

After you feel confident in your moves you should now be ready for the big day.  Get your things ready and plan for a pleasant evening.

Start off by having him sit down on the chair.  Give him some of the wine or alcohol that you bought for him and tell him you will be right back.  During this time you can go and get yourself ready.  Have the music handy so that when you come out you can easily begin your show.

Start off with your newly mastered stripper strut.  Your high heels should accentuate your entire body.  Put on a show.  Be very slow and sensual, occasionally touching him and backing off to dance for him.
 
Do not be afraid to touch yourself in a sensual manner.  This does not mean you have to begin the actual acts on the floor but the build up to it can be great for arousal.  Let your hair down and let go.  Share some of your most erotic facial expressions and be prepared to tease him.

Do not let him touch you.  Let me repeat that You cannot let him touch you.  You can touch him but he cannot touch you.  When he attempts to touch you or grab you, slap his hand away playfully and give an expression of no, no, no, No touching.  This will heighten the sexual tension even more as it would fall completely in line with the whole fantasy.

By this time he should be on cloud nine.  Now you can finish off the performance with the world famous lap dance.  Tease him in a way that will excite him, but not so much that he is flustered.  You know his moods and levels.  You will know when he is ready for you.  When you realize that, your strip has been completed and a completely different performance is ready to begin.